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But when South Africa                       “I kept losing to him,” Darren   When the demands of international
        returned to international                      admits. “One day he       travel threatened to pull him away,
        sport in the early                                said, ‘You’re trying to   Natasha was the one who steadied the
                                     Everyone
        ’90s, he saw an                                    win. Don’t try to win.   family. “She was a gladiator,” he says.
                                   thought I was
        opportunity. “I didn’t                              Stick to your game   “She kept everything balanced — me,
                                   crazy to turn
        want other people                                    plan and let the    the kids, the house, the travel. She even
                                pro at 18. I wanted
        deciding my future.                                  other guy crack     became my manager for a while.”
        I wanted to be in        to be in control of         first.’ It sounded
        control of my own             my own                ridiculous           The boys grew up on tour, experiencing
        achievements.”            achievements.             at the time,         Dubai, Canada, and Europe before
        Against all advice, he                             but it changed        choosing their own paths. One
        turned professional.                             everything.”            inherited Darren’s love of home; the
                                                                                 other took after Natasha, eager to
        It was a bold move that paid               The advice stuck. Years later,   travel and explore. Through it all, family
        off quickly. Within three years he’d   statistics showed that whenever   meetings and open conversations kept
        already won his first tournament,    Darren led going into a final round,   them grounded. “We always told them
        proving wrong all those who said     he never lost. “McNulty was right,” he   — be honest, say what you feel. That’s
        he’d sink without a safety net.      says. “It’s about patience, not panic.”  how we made it work.”

        Learning how to win                  Building a life around family       The mental game
        Raw talent alone doesn’t win         For all his victories — five on the   To outsiders, golf looks serene. But
        tournaments — Darren is quick        European Tour, 24 professional      Darren knows it’s one of the most
        to point that out. What made the     titles in total — Darren talks most   mentally demanding sports in the
        difference were the lessons he       passionately about his              world. “You stand over a shot and
        learned from seasoned professionals   wife Natasha and                      suddenly all you see is the bunker
        like Mark McNulty.                   their two sons.                          or the water hazard. You’ve got
                                                                                        to reset, commit, and trust
                                                                    Natasha was
                                                                                         yourself. Six weeks on tour
                                                                    a gladiator —
                                                                                         can leave you mentally
                                                                  she balanced me,
                                                                                         hammered.”
                                                                    the kids, and
                                                                      the tour.
                                                                                        That mental strength has
                                                                                       carried him through decades
                                                                                     of competition and now into
                                                                                  the senior circuit. At 50, Darren is
                                                                                 competing with his peers again,
                                                                                 managing his body with care and
                                                                                 enjoying the game as much as ever.
                                                                                 “As long as the body holds up, I’ll keep
                                                                                 going,” he says.

                                                                                 More than a golfer
                                                                                 In Centurion Golf Estate, Darren is
                                                                                 not just the professional seen on
                                                                                 television. He’s the neighbour walking
                                                                                 the fairways, the dad who values home
                                                                                 above all else, the man who still lights
                                                                                 up when telling the story of his pawn-
                                                                                 shop clubs.

                                                                                 “I’ve been blessed in my career,” he
                                                                                 says. “But my family is everything.
                                                                                 That’s the core. The rest of it fits in
                                                                                 around them.”

                                                                                 For the estate, that’s the real story:
                                                                                 a world-class golfer whose proudest
                                                                                 victories are the ones that happen
                                                                                 at home.


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