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A LETTER TO HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS
BY MICHELLE L. RAYMOND
Why do adults ask kids what or having no plan, shift your thinking towards Many adults are unaware of these things, yet
they want to do when they something that can serve you better now and in some are running companies whose staff are at
grow up? To get ideas! the future. the mercy of their blind spots.
Here are four things to consider as you move into Self-awareness is the secret ingredient to
hat you choose in terms of your school the next season of your life: knowing what your purpose is.
subjects, the university or college you
Wwill attend, and your career will not Know thyselF leaDership
define the rest of your life. And if you think it does, The pressure and requirements for choosing a Leadership is a big theme in school, particularly
then perhaps you need some guidance because career path during your high school years are as you draw closer to Matric and titles become
who you are as a person, how you choose to enormous and, quite frankly, absured. Unless prioritised: Head Boy, Head Girl, Prefect, Student
respond to situations in life, and how you treat you have been mentored and groomed for Representative Council, etc.
others is far more important than any job title or the road ahead, choices are often made from
profession. limited exposure to the world and only partial There is so much information about what
knowledge – knowledge of self, that is. Do you leadership is, and yet it is still misunderstood.
I can count on one hand the number of people I (as a 16- or 18-year-old) know who you are or To understand what leadership actually is, it is
know who, after school, knew what they wanted where your strengths lie, and how to use them sometimes necessary to first know what it is not.
to do and are still doing it – and are happy. to your advantage? Do you know your areas of • Becoming a leader is not a popularity contest.
development and your gifts? Are you aware of • Leaders are not in charge of others – those
Instead of stressing about having a 10-year plan, the opportunities that lie before you? are managers. You can be a manager without
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