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HEALTH MATTERS



                                                                                 they are themselves the head of a child-led
                                                                                 household. The age gap, or lack of a close
                                                                                 bond, makes difficult subjects even harder
                                                                                 to approach. A lack of parental supervision is
                                                                                 harmful, with most teens feeling they would
                                                                                 relate better to a parent than a grandparent
                                                                                 or aunt.

                                                                                 The poverty and hardships they face often
                                                                                 make matters worse. Like all teenagers,
                                                                                 they want to look a certain way or dress
                                                                                 fashionably, but with a lack of resources
                                                                                 this is not always possible, leading to
                                                                                 comparisons which affect their sense of self-
                                                                                 worth.

                                                                                 Social media only seems to exacerbate
                                                                                 issues like this, as the ‘like’ button has an
                                                                                 emotional impact and seeking validation
                                                                                 through social platforms is treacherous
                                                                                 ground for young people still trying to come
                                                                                 to grips with their feelings.
                                                                                 ASKING FOR HELP
                                                                                 Lekana says that although most teens don’t
                                                                                 feel comfortable asking for help, many
                   he 2016 Lancet Commission   non-profit organisation mandated to create   of them will unconsciously be seeking it
                   on Adolescent Health and   positive change by providing a Christian   through their behaviour. She warns that a
                   Wellbeing highlights that   education and training for black women   teen who has withdrawn and wants to spend
                   adolescence is a crucial period   to become teachers in the early childhood   most of their time alone or in their room, is in
                   for realising human potential.   development sector.          trouble. In addition to bottling up emotions,
        TDuring this volatile time,                                              teenagers who constantly belittle themselves
        the brain undergoes rapid development   In 2010, The Love Trust opened a school in   and have negative comments about others,
        and changes, and interactions with social   Midrand and has been providing a haven   including their families, may need help.
        environments significantly shape the abilities   for its learners ever since. It oversees every
        that young people carry into adulthood.  aspect of their wellbeing, with the inclusion   Lekana is put in touch with learners who
                                             of a social worker to ensure that their   are struggling, when this is recognised by
        Many medical experts predicted that post-  psycho-social development is catered for.  teachers in the classroom but often met with
        Covid 19, the next health crisis would relate                            resistance by the teen’s family. She says
        to mental health and that prediction seems   Elsie Lekana is the resident social worker for   the biggest hurdle when communicating
        to have been spot on. SADAG, the South   the Nokuphila School, working between the   with family members can be the general
 ADDRESSING THE RISE IN  African Depression and Anxiety Group,   educators, learners, their parents and the   lack of knowledge about mental illness, with
                                             local community to ensure that teens who
        has confirmed that teen suicide is on the
                                                                                 older generations not understanding the
        increase and becoming more and more
                                             support are given just that.
        common. A worrying statistic is that suicide   are not coping or need additional care and   emotional and psychological part of what
                                                                                 she is trying to explain to them. ‘Soldiering
        accounts for 9% of all teen deaths in South                              on’ is not always healthy but sometimes
        Africa.                              Her role is critical and she has formed a   expected of the younger generation. In
                                             network between the organisations she   addition, cultural myths sometimes leave
        Whilst some may experience difficult periods,   represents and local counselling and support   teens feeling hurt and misunderstood.
        depression is not as simply shifted and can   services. She works with current students
        be extremely dangerous if left undiagnosed.   as well as alumni from the school through   While the subject of depression and suicide
        Up to one third of all suicide victims have   their Saturday classes, and is privy to the   can be disheartening, it is comforting to know
        attempted suicide previously and the best   pressures and hardships faced by teenagers   that organisations are constantly working to
        way of improving this situation is to gain   in the township.            change perceptions and educate others about
        a good understanding of recognising the                                  mental health issues. The sooner the stigma
        symptoms of depression amongst them.   She says that while many teens experience   that surrounds them is removed, the more
        There are tools at our disposal to help   the dangers of peer pressure, with   people can be helped to lead fulfilling lives.
        combat this crisis.                  depression it is more often than not a
                                             sense of displacement and a feeling of   Lekana also has close ties with the Valued
        THE LOVE TRUST                       being misunderstood that leaves them with   Citizens initiative, and believes that this will go
        Leading the charge is The Love Trust, a   more severe mood imbalances. Many of the   a long way towards paving a path to healing.
                                             students she deals with feel they do not have   She believes that school-led workshops
                                             a person they can lean on, or a safe space.   for parents, with informative sessions on
       Elsie Lekana                          In some cases, they live with an older relative   recognising and aiding young people battling
                                             who is not a parent or in extreme cases,   with depression, will be a game changer.


                                               CONT A C T DET AILS
                                               If you or anyone you know needs help, please visit
                                               https://sadag.org
                                               Web address: www.lovetrust.co.za

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