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TODAY'S CHILD


        Prefect, Student Representative     THE HIGH ACHIEVERS                  success. In other words, you base
        Council, etc.                       School is an academic institution   your self-worth on your performance
                                            based on the principles of education,   and output, which leads to burnout,
        There is so much information about   learning and knowledge. To measure  stress and lack of meaning in life.
        what leadership is, and yet it is still   progress, it needs quantitative
        misunderstood. To understand what   results, i.e. tests and exams.      LIFE IS A JOURNEY
        leadership actually is, it is sometimes  Therefore, performance at school   My work offers me a unique
        necessary to first know what it is not.  is based on marks and academic   opportunity to engage with people
        •   Becoming a leader is not a      achievements.                       on a very deep level. Many of
           popularity contest.                                                  these people include top business
        •  Leaders are not in charge of     Even though school takes the        leaders, successful entrepreneurs,
           others – those are managers.     majority of your time, you are still   doctors and CEOs. Those leading
           You can be a manager without     more than your marks. Unless you    the most exciting and influential lives
           leadership skills and be a leader   plan on becoming an academic     have realised that there is no final
           without being a manager.         and spending the rest of your days   destination, finish line at the end of
        •  Leaders are not appointed.       reading, researching and publishing   the rat race, or beacon at the top of
        •  Leaders do not control others.   papers, there is a lot more to life than  the ladder where they get awarded
        •  Leadership is a learnt skill. Some   just developing your intellect.  for ultimate achievement. Their
           people are natural leaders, where                                    success and motivation come from
           others develop the skill.        There is an unhealthy and           their ability to embrace the journey
        •  Leadership is not a title.       unbalanced focus on this element of   and whatever it brings.
                                            people development. Even if you are
        The best definition of leadership is: the   a high achiever and school comes   You do not have to have yourself,
        responsibility you take for the influence  easy to you, you risk becoming   your career and your life all figured
        you have on the world around you.   identified with smartness and       out. Just take it a step at a time.




































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                                                                  Performance

                                                                at school is

                                                                based on marks

                                                                and academic
                                                                achievements.                           “








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