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Lifestyle





         •  Leaders are not in charge of others – those   of your time, you are still more than your
          are  managers.  You  can  be  a  manager   marks.  Unless  you  plan  on  becoming  an
          without leadership skills and be a leader   academic and spending the rest of your
          without being a manager.          days  reading,  researching  and  publishing
         •  Leaders are not appointed.      papers, there is a lot more to life than just
         •  Leaders do not control others.  developing your intellect.
         •  Leadership  is  a  learnt  skill.  Some  people
          are natural leaders, where others develop   There is an unhealthy and unbalanced focus
          the skill.                        on this element of people development.
         •  Leadership is not a title.      Even if you are a high achiever and school
                                            comes  easy  to  you,  you  risk  becoming
         The best definition of leadership is:   identified with smartness and success. In
         the responsibility you take for the   other words, you base your self-worth on
         influence you have on the world    your performance and output, which leads
                                            to burnout, stress and lack of meaning in
         around you.                        life.


         THe HiGH ACHieveRS                 LIFE IS A JOURNEY
         School is an academic institution based on   My work offers me a unique opportunity to   ladder where they get awarded for ultimate
         the principles of education, learning and   engage with people on a very deep level.   achievement. Their success and motivation
         knowledge. To measure progress, it needs   Many of these people include top business   come from their ability to embrace the
         quantitative results, i.e. tests and exams.   leaders, successful entrepreneurs, doctors   journey and whatever it brings.
         Therefore, performance at school is based   and CEOs. Those leading the most exciting
         upon marks and academic achievements.  and influential lives have realised that there   You do not have to have yourself, your
                                            is no final destination, finish line at the end   career and your life all figured out. Just take
         Even though  school takes the  majority   of the rat race, or beacon at the top of the   it a step at a time.





















































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