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Lifestyle




             For instance, are you fit and healthy   patterns will change.  You will go   the people you love, are you fully
           enough  to  play  with  your  children   through a phase in your life where you   attentive?
           or grandchildren? Do you have the   are not getting sufficient sleep. But it   •  Do  you  listen?  Listening  is  not  a
           resilience to bounce back quicker from   should only be a phase and should end.   passive activity. It takes practice to
           any setbacks? Do you have the mental,   If it is not ending and persisting as your   be able to listen without thinking
           physical  and emotional  capacity to   child is getting older, you must seek   about your answer, response, or
           dream big for your life?          help. Lack of sleep can cause serious   counterargument.  You will be
             Unfortunately, many people only   harm now and in the future.       amazed at what happens when a
           value these elements, i.e. their health   With that said, how does one then get   person feels heard, regardless of
           and well-being, when they no longer   better sleep?                   whether you agree  with them or
           have them. So to enhance your quality   Here are a few simple things to try.  not. Most arguments or heated
           of life, you need to take a proactive   •  Get at least 15 to 30 minutes of daily   discussions can be diffused by
           approach.                           sun exposure to boost your overall   simply and authentically listening.
                                               well-being and vitamin D intake.  •  Do you create a space for others to
           Here are some essential building   •  Reduce your exposure to electronic   feel that they can belong?
           blocks to improve your quality of   blue light before bedtime.
           life:                              •  Avoid caffeine in the late afternoon   The third building block of creating
             The first and most important      or evening.                    quality of life is the quality of
           building block of creating quality   •  Avoid  tobacco  and  alcohol  in  the   the food you eat. Your body is a
           of life is quality sleep. A good night's   late afternoon and evening if it's   machine and needs the proper fuel
           sleep is directly proportional to your   something that affects your sleep.   to perform efficiently. What you eat
           overall well-being. I am not going to   Remember, we are talking about   and how you eat it are key factors
           go too much into science because    the quality of your sleep, and all   that will determine whether you are
           there is a lot freely available. Sleep is   these things affect the cycles and   merely coping in life and keeping
           a very complex process consisting of   processes you'll go through.  your head above water, or you are
           various stages and phases. Once you   •  Try  to  use  your  sleep  area  only  for   thriving and in control.
           understand the purpose of sleep, you   sleep and intimacy. Avoid clutter and   If and when you are ready and able
           will understand the importance of it.  electronics as much as possible.  to nourish yourself correctly, keep in
             The purpose of sleep is restoration.   •  Daily  exercises  and  walking  can   mind that each person and their body
           In other words, it is the only time your   enhance the quality of sleep.  is different.  What is healthy for one
           body can restore itself on a cellular   •  Consider  the  temperature  in  the   person may not necessarily be so for
           level. Research suggests that sleep   room and yourself and regulate it if   the next person. It is worth taking time
           plays a critical role in your neurological,   necessary.           to  explore  what  foods  are  appropriate
           psychological and metabolic health and   •  Notice  the  sounds  and  noises  that   for your specific mind/body type and in
           memory consolidation. If you are not   could disturb your sleep.   what quantities. You do not necessarily
           getting quality sleep, it is not giving                            have to visit a dietician or nutritionist –
           your body what it needs to restore itself.  The second building block of   simply do some research and become
             So many influences and factors can   creating quality of life is the   more aware. When you eat various foods,
           disturb sleep, such as worry, stress, and   quality of your relationships. You   take note of how you feel afterwards.
           anxiety, as well as physical factors such   may have many relationships in   Consider starting an eating journal and
           as disturbances at night, like children,   your life, including family, friends,   document the types of foods you eat
           insects or noises, medications or your   extended family and colleagues,   and your body’s reaction to them.
           daily routine.                    but how many of these are quality   Your quality of life is a choice, so
             PS: If you are a parent of young   relationships? Do they add value to   empower  yourself  with  whatever
           children, then this will not necessarily   your life, and do you add value to   knowledge you need.
           apply right now because your sleeping   theirs?                      There will, of course, be times and
                                              Often the quality of your relationships   seasons that demand a lot from you,
                                             comes down to the quality time   but if your foundation is solid in terms
                                             you spend with these people.  To   of your well-being (and the elements
                                             then  enhance  the  quality  of  your   previously mentioned in this article),
                                             relationships, consider these points:  you will be able to be much more
                                              •  Are you present? When you are with   resilient.



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