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                                                                                  TEEN HEALTH FOCUS

                                                                                 subjects even harder to approach. A lack of
                                                                                 parental supervision is harmful, with most
                                                                                 teens feeling they would relate better to a
                                                                                 parent than a grandparent or aunt.

                                                                                 The poverty and hardships they face often
                                                                                 make matters worse. Like all teenagers,
                                                                                 they want to look a certain way or dress
                                                                                 fashionably, but with a lack of resources
                                                                                 this is not always possible, leading to
                                                                                 comparisons which affect their sense of
                                                                                 self-worth.

                                                                                 Social media only seems to exacerbate
                                                                                 issues like this, as the ‘like’ button has an
                                                                                 emotional impact and seeking validation
                                                                                 through social platforms is treacherous
                                                                                 ground for young people still trying to
                                                                                 come to grips with their feelings.

                                                                                 ASKING FOR HELP
                                                                                 Lekana says that although most teens
                                                                                 don’t feel comfortable asking for help,
                                                                                 many of them will unconsciously be
                  he 2016 Lancet Commission   non-profit organisation mandated to create   seeking it through their behaviour. She
                  on Adolescent Health       positive change by providing a Christian   warns that a teen who has withdrawn and
                  and Wellbeing highlights   education and training for black women   wants to spend most of their time alone
                  that adolescence is a      to become teachers in the early childhood   or in their room, is in trouble. In addition
                  crucial period for realising   development sector.             to bottling up emotions, teenagers
        Thuman potential. During                                                 who constantly belittle themselves and
        this volatile time, the brain undergoes   In 2010, The Love Trust opened a school   have negative comments about others,
        rapid development and changes, and   in Midrand and has been providing   including their families, may need help.
        interactions with social environments   a haven for its learners ever since. It
        significantly shape the abilities that young   oversees every aspect of their wellbeing,   Lekana is put in touch with learners who
        people carry into adulthood.         with the inclusion of a social worker   are struggling, when this is recognised
                                             to ensure that their psycho-social   by teachers in the classroom but often
        Many medical experts predicted that   development is catered for.        met with resistance by the teen’s family.
        post-Covid 19, the next health crisis would                              She says the biggest hurdle when
        relate to mental health and that prediction   Elsie Lekana is the resident social worker   communicating with family members can
        seems to have been spot on. SADAG, the   for the Nokuphila School, working between   be the general lack of knowledge about
        South African Depression and Anxiety   the educators, learners, their parents and   mental illness, with older generations
        Group, has confirmed that teen suicide is   the local community to ensure that teens   not understanding the emotional and
        on the increase and becoming more and   who are not coping or need additional   psychological part of what she is trying
 ADDRESSING THE RISE IN  more common. A worrying statistic is that   care and support are given just that.   to explain to them. ‘Soldiering on’ is not
        suicide accounts for 9% of all teen deaths
                                             Her role is critical and she has formed a
                                                                                 always healthy but sometimes expected
        in South Africa.                     network between the organisations she   of the younger generation. In addition,
                                             represents and local counselling and   cultural myths sometimes leave teens
        Whilst some may experience difficult   support services. She works with current   feeling hurt and misunderstood.
        periods, depression is not as simply   students as well as alumni from the school
        shifted and can be extremely dangerous   through their Saturday classes, and is   While the subject of depression and suicide
        if left undiagnosed. Up to one third   privy to the pressures and hardships faced   can be disheartening, it is comforting to
        of all suicide victims have attempted   by teenagers in the township.    know that organisations are constantly
        suicide previously and the best way                                      working to change perceptions and educate
        of improving this situation is to gain a   She says that while many teens experience   others about mental health issues. The
        good understanding of recognising the   the dangers of peer pressure, with   sooner the stigma that surrounds them is
        symptoms of depression amongst them.   depression it is more often than not a   removed, the more people can be helped to
        There are tools at our disposal to help   sense of displacement and a feeling of   lead fulfilling lives.
        combat this crisis.                  being misunderstood that leaves them with
                                             more severe mood imbalances. Many of   Lekana also has close ties with the Valued
        THE LOVE TRUST                       the students she deals with feel they do   Citizens initiative, and believes that this
        Leading the charge is The Love Trust, a   not have a person they can lean on, or a   will go a long way towards paving a path
                                             safe space. In some cases, they live with   to healing. She believes that school-led
                                             an older relative who is not a parent or in   workshops for parents, with informative
                                             extreme cases, they are themselves the   sessions on recognising and aiding young
                                             head of a child-led household. The age   people battling with depression, will be a
                                             gap, or lack of a close bond, makes difficult   game changer.

                                           C ONT A CT DET AILS
                                           If you or anyone you know needs help, please visit
                                           https://sadag.org
                                           Web address: www.lovetrust.co.za


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