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HEALTH & WELLNESS























                                      THE HEALING




                                      JOURNEY




                                      Finding the path

                                      to recovery.



                                       BY MICHELLE L RAYMOND








                 very week on the radio I interview   How are we to heal when we are ashamed   does the opposite. It makes us stronger
                 interesting corporate leaders, inspiring   of our journeys?        because we can transform the suffering into
                 entrepreneurs, or avid adventurers                                 resilience and compassion.
           Ewith amazing stories. It is usually a   A PARADIGM SHIFT
            business-focussed conversation centring on   Let us start by removing idle chit-chat from   Our well-being and performance go hand-
            innovation, technology and leadership.   our social circles. Let us take a genuine   in-hand. If we acknowledge our struggles
                                                interest in the well-being of others. Let   and get the necessary help, we can move
            On one particular day, a lady walked in and,   us erase from our vocabularies the all-to-  away from a life of mere survival to a life that
            little did I know that her story would render   common phrases like 'I'm fine thanks' and   thrives. We all deserve that!
            me to tears - not something you'd expect   'Ja, no, can't complain'.
            from a business show.
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            Without any warning, she jumped right to the   We have all gone through something that   help if you are suffering
            point and told me the heart-breaking story   has caused us pain. Once we are brave   from a crisis:
            of how she had recently lost her 9-month-  enough to open up about it, it is surprising
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                                                is such a complex and personal journey,   Child Welfare South Africa:
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            access to, the unseen and rarely divulged   believe.
            struggles almost every person carries.                                    CANSA: 0800 22 66 22
            These stories include everything from   A wise man once said, "Allow people the
            miscarriages and difficult births, death of   dignity of their own journey."  If none of these situations are
            loved ones, depression, neglect, fear, pain,                              relevant to you, feel free to visit my
            abuse and sadness. Many of these stories   Our suffering does not define us. But it can   website: www.achievegreatness.co.za
            are suppressed and internalised because   and will hold us back from living a fulfilled life.  should you wish to start your healing
            modern society has not created the space to                               journey through coaching.
            openly share and connect.           Seeking help does not make us weak - it
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