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           yourself based on your success or income,   HONOUR THOSE WHO HELPED YOU   ENJOY THE RIDE
           and you fall into an inevitable trap where   ALONG THE WAY           There is a delicate balance one needs to
           you need to maintain these things to feel   It is wise to honour those who have   maintain in life. It is between doing what is
           worthy and accepted.              come before you and those who have   necessary to get what you want, and not
             There is nothing wrong with riding the   supported you. Remember your teachers,   taking life too seriously. Have goals and
           wave, but know it is just a wave. It will   mentors, guides, and those who helped   dreams, but don’t hold on to them too
           pass. Other waves will come and go. The   you through tough times – those people   tightly. Put in the hard work, but also take
           key is to remain open to the waves and   you met spontaneously who, with a story   time to play.
           not hold on to just one because that is   or quote, changed the course of your life.
           impossible. By cultivating a curious mind,   Remember the people in your corner,   The girl looked up at her mentor, slightly
           we can naturally keep pride at bay while   those who had your back and believed in   confused and  disappointed. He knew
           also enjoying the ebb and flow of life.  you. Likewise, it’s even more important to   what she was thinking. “This is not the
             Curiosity is also a great remedy for   realise the impact and effect you have on   answer you were looking for, was it?”
           stuck-ness.                       others and what your words could mean   “No,” she replied. To which he said, “But
                                             to them on their journey.        will you still get into the canoe, ride the
                                              Mentors and guides help to keep you   river of life and be ok with not knowing
                                             honest and accountable. Everyone needs   everything?”
                                             support in some way.













































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