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        child to be seen – to be respected – not
        despite who they are, but because of it.
        Nicola explains, “Don’t underestimate
        your child. If you start with a mindset
        that your child is incapable, that’s
        exactly what they will be. I have had
        teachers who have said James is
        incapable, and this was often when the
        child was sitting in the room listening.
        I always tell my son, ‘Whatever it is,
        it’s not your fault. It’s the teacher who
        doesn’t understand you.’”

        “If somebody isn’t getting it, it’s not
        you. It’s them. Always believe in your
        child. If you believe in them and show                                                       PHOTO BY MARISA HOWENSTINE
        them – teach them that they’re capable
        – you’re going to create somebody who   As social entrepreneur Vivienne Schultz   Steve Jobs and fellow Silicon Valley
        is very resilient and motivated and will   said, “We are all under construction,”   billionaire Bill Gates, are among the
        ultimately surprise you and many others.”  but we need the right building blocks   neurodivergent changemakers who
                                            to progress with our journeys. As   have achieved success far beyond
        Jo adds, “You begin life with       educators and parents, it falls to us to   anything most ‘normal’ people ever
        expectations – like you’re going to get   give our children the bricks and mortar   will.
        married, have kids – and it’s all in this   they need to build themselves up.
        perfect little box. Then life really hits                               Being different should be a source of
        you, and it turns out messy. But the   Jo and Nicola acknowledge there is no   pride, never shame. As Nicola and Jo
        messy parts are the beautiful parts.   single recipe for success, given each   have proved, with early intervention,
        Messy is where you grow and learn,   child’s uniqueness. While neurodiverse   consistent therapy, being a tireless
        and change is inevitable.           children can face challenges in     advocate for your child, finding other
                                            life, in school and social situations,   parents to connect with, and having
        “I was recently asked in an interview   parents and educators can help them   no expectations except giving your
        who I look up to. I responded that,   overcome barriers and thrive.     child the tools they need to become
        quite literally, I don’t look up; I look                                the person they want to be, they can
        down because I’m taller than him. I   Many neurodiverse people have made   become functional, highly successful
        look up to my son because he has    a profound impact on the world.     human beings – and it is our privilege
        taught me so much.”                 Director Tim Burton, tech pioneer   to educate them.



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