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ESTATE NEWS
                                                                                                          ESTATE MATTERS
                                                                                                THE BIG PICTURE
                                                                                                    HOME FRONT
           LAUREN FISCHER’S FIVE SECRETS TO BUILDING STRONGER
           FAMILY BONDS: HARMONY STARTS AT HOME

                  fter years of working with
                  families, Lauren Fischer has
                  honed a simple yet powerful
           Aapproach to fostering
           connection within the home. As the
           founder of Harmony at Home and a
           dedicated wellness counsellor, Lauren
           knows that meaningful connections don’t
           just happen by accident—they require
           intention, care, and a little creativity.
           Here, Lauren shares her five essential
           secrets to creating stronger bonds within
           your family—practical insights that any
           parent can apply to bring more harmony
           into their lives.

           1. THE POWER OF A LOVING
           TOUCH
           Sometimes, it’s the smallest gestures
           that have the biggest impact. Lauren
           highlights that physical touch is one
           of the most powerful ways to foster
           connection within your family. “A hug,
           holding hands, or even a simple touch
           on the shoulder can work wonders in
           cultivating calm and reducing stress,”
           she shares. While respecting personal
           space and boundaries is essential, these
           small acts of kindness go a long way in
           communicating love and support.
           From cuddling up for a movie night to
           giving high-fives after a long day, these
           moments remind family members that
           they are valued. Physical touch can
           deepen relationships and create a sense
           of security—something every family needs
           to thrive.
                                              asking thoughtful questions, and really   5. SUPPORT EACH OTHER
           2. WISE WORDS AND GENUINE          hearing what your loved ones have to   Lauren knows that support is the
           PRAISE                             say—builds trust and encourages open   foundation of a thriving family. “Families
           The words we choose can shape our family’s   communication,” she says.  who encourage and cheer each other
           sense of self. Lauren understands that                               on create a positive environment where
           communication is key to fostering healthy   Creating a safe space where everyone   everyone feels capable of achieving
           relationships. “Children are especially   feels seen and acknowledged strengthens   their dreams,” she says. Whether
           sensitive to the words they hear at home.   the emotional bonds that tie your family   helping with household chores, sharing
           Encouraging words, validation, and praise   together. Being present in these moments   goals, or solving problems together,
           go a long way in making them feel capable,   not only boosts well-being but also   providing support within the family builds
           competent, and loved,” she explains.  deepens the connection within the family.  resilience.
           Whether you’re offering a compliment,   4. CREATE FAMILY ROUTINES    Beyond just solving problems, Lauren
           validating feelings, or paying attention   Routine may sound mundane, but   encourages families to grow together
           to the unnoticed details—like a child’s   Lauren believes it can be a powerful tool   by learning from one another. Be open
           latest artistic creation—your words help   for creating a sense of unity. “Family   to new ideas and celebrate each family
           build a sense of belonging. Lauren   routines—whether it’s a weekly game   member’s achievements, big or small.
           encourages parents to be intentional   night, reading before bed, or even regular   This strengthens the family unit and sets a
           with their language, as these interactions   screen-free dinners—create shared   strong example for future generations.
           lay the foundation for trust and open   experiences that bring families closer
           communication within the family.   together,” she advises. Routines cultivate   Lauren’s five secrets are a practical guide
                                              consistency and allow families to connect,   for families strengthening their bonds
           3. ACTIVE LISTENING: BE            have fun, and work as a team.     and creating a more harmonious home
           PRESENT                                                              environment. Her approach is grounded
           In today’s fast-paced world, distraction   Incorporating small, regular activities into   in empathy, experience, and a deep belief
           constantly threatens meaningful connection.   your schedule helps nurture connection.   in the power of connection. For more
           But Lauren stresses the importance of   And it doesn’t have to be complicated.   insights or to book a session, visit www.
           giving your undivided attention to family   Simple routines, performed together, offer   harmonyathome.co.za and begin your
           members when spending time together.   the chance to create cherished memories   journey toward a more balanced family
           “Active listening—making eye contact,   and strengthen family bonds.  life.

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