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ESTATE NEWS
                                                                                                    ESTATE MATTERS
                                                                                                THE BIG PICTURE
                                                                                                    HOME FRONT
                                                                                      a 1-hour “masterclass” for
                                                                                      younger siblings, cousins, or
                                                                                      neighbours. Builds confidence
                                                                                      and leadership.

                                                                              Optional Support Roles:
                                                                              If teens are helping at home or supporting
                                                                              younger siblings:
                                                                                  •   Recognise their effort. Even
                                                                                      small acts of maturity deserve
                                                                                      praise.
                                                                                  •   Offer flexibility — e.g. if they
                                                                                      supervise a sibling’s afternoon
                                                                                      activity, they get screen time or
                                                                                      social time uninterrupted

                                                                              FINAL THOUGHTS: IT DOESN’T
                                                                              HAVE TO BE PERFECT
                                                                              Not every day will run smoothly. Some
                                                                              days will end in cereal for dinner and
                                                                              screen marathons. That’s okay. The goal
                                                                              isn’t perfection — it’s presence. A few
                                                                              simple rhythms, some go-to resources,
                (e.g. Canva, Tynker, BandLab)  Holiday Toolkit Ideas:         and a spirit of flexibility can shift the whole
             •  Library books, magazine        •   Access to creative software (e.g.  energy of the holidays.
                subscriptions, or e-reader access  DaVinci Resolve, FL Studio,
             •  Access to low-risk tools (e.g. glue  Notion)                  Whether you’re parenting solo, managing
                gun, camera, kitchen basics)   •   Personal development books or  work with kids underfoot, or coordinating
                                                   goal-setting templates     with someone who helps care for them,
         Engaging Activities:                  •   Online platforms with free  remember: small things count. One new
             •  Create a Podcast or Voice Note     short courses (e.g. Coursera,  idea a day. One moment of laughter.
                Diary – they can interview         Skillshare, FutureLearn)   One memory made in the middle of the
                                                                              mayhem.
 Smart Ways to Keep Kids Busy at Home or in the Estate  siblings, talk about their  •  Support to earn pocket money
                favourite game, or explore a
                                                   through safe estate jobs (dog
                weekly theme.                      walking, tutoring)         Holiday sanity isn’t about doing more. It’s
             •  Run a “Kids Club” for younger                                 about doing wisely — with whatever time,
                siblings – with planning sheets,  Engaging Activities:        energy, and help you have.
                posters, and a schedule of     •   The “Come Dine
                events like puppet shows, story    With Me” Challenge
                readings, and games.               – each teen cooks
             •  30-Day Project Challenge –         one family dinner
                choose a focus (drawing, baking,   a week, with
                fitness, coding) and log progress.  planning, budgeting,
                Create a display board for the     and presentation
                fridge or WhatsApp updates for     included. Bonus:
                the family.                        judge it like a reality
             •  Estate Reporter – they can take    show.
                photos, interview neighbours   •   Mini Portfolio
                (with permission), and create a    Building – whether
                weekly estate newsletter (real or  it’s writing,
                pretend).                          photography, digital
             •                                     art, or carpentry,
         Optional Support Roles:                   help them create a
         For tweens being guided by caregivers:    digital record of their
             •  Help them choose 1–2 daily         work — great for self-
                focus tasks in the morning         esteem and future
             •  Encourage journaling, planning     CVs.
                their own meals, or tidying their  •  Passion Project
                play area — mini life skills in    Month – encourage
                action                             them to define
                                                   and pursue one
         FOR TEENS (AGES 14–18)                    meaningful goal
         Freedom + Mastery + Meaning               over the holidays.
         Teens may insist they want to be left     Provide light touch                                                         “
         alone — but too much unstructured         accountability
         time quickly turns into lethargy and      without hovering.
         disconnection. They need opportunities   •  Teen-Led Workshops
         to lead, build something real, and feel   – if they’re good
         useful. The right challenge can reignite   at something,
         their spark.                              invite them to host

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