Page 24 - FWG Issue 1 February 2025
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Animals Matter



































          IS YOUR PET READY TO MEET YOUR BABY?





                aving had two children, I   sounds, sights and smells. Here are some   •  Ensure  the  separation  of  dog  and  baby
                know what it feels like to be   simple techniques to use:       toys.
                overwhelmed as a new mother.   •  Carry a doll wrapped in a blanket around   •  Introduce baby scents, for example, baby
        HBabies change everything.  They     the house and teach your dog to sniff at   wipes, powder, nappies and creams.
         affect our daily schedules, sleep patterns,   the feet of the doll instead of the face.  •  Help  your  pet  deal  with  separation  by
         house and our pets. Then, just as we think   •  Display cot, car seat, and baby bouncers   keeping  it  at  home  (but  in  a  room)  for
         we are getting used to parenting, the   in the house.                  short periods. Give your pet an activity
         baby starts to crawl, walk, run and throw   •  Play YouTube clips of babies crying quietly   feeder or a toy to keep it busy so that the
         major  tantrums.  We  know  it’s  a  stressful   and gently increase the volume.  animal is relaxed about the separation.
         time for parents so how does your dog   •  Go for walks with the pram and the dog.  •  If your pet displays any sign of discomfort,
         or cat perceive what’s happening? How   •  Make  a  safe  space  for  your  dog  or  cat.   then stop and make it easier. As an
         can we intervene to ensure the transition   They need to know and feel that they can   example, lower the sound of the baby
         from baby to toddler goes as smoothly as   get away from the noise and commotion.   noises.  The goal is to train the animal
         possible with our companion animals?  Please don’t use this area for punishment.   how to conduct himself around the baby
                                             Baby gates are useful as the animal can   and be less stressed with the upcoming
         Prepare                             still  see through  the bars  and won’t  feel   disruption to the home.
         A few months before the baby is due,   shut out of the family. Please don’t ever
         familiarise your dog with as many infant   punish your dog in this area.   Introducing the baby
                                                                               •  On  the  day  when  you  bring  your  bundle
                                                                                of joy home with you, each parent should
                                                                                greet the pet without the baby. Especially
                                                                                if you have been in the hospital for a few
                                                                                days, the pet will likely be excited to see
                                                                                you and will pick up that you may smell and
                                                                                walk differently. If possible, take a few worn
                                                                                baby grows or a baby blanket back home to
                                                                                allow the pet to get the baby’s scent.
                                                                               •  Once  the  dog  is  calm,  bring  the  baby
                                                                                into the house, preferably in a car seat (as
                                                                                opposed to holding the baby). Position
                                                                                the car seat where the dog can safely see
                                                                                the baby but cannot reach the baby.
                                                                               •  When the dog leaves or turns away from
                                                                                the baby, reward him for doing so.
                                                                               •  Tell  your  dog  to  sit  next  to  you  or  your
                                                                                baby.

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