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TODAY’S CHILD




























                                          TEACH YOUR CHILD



                                          TO PROBLEM-SOLVE





                                                      BY NICOLEEN DAVIES, LIFE TALK FORUM






                                                                            very day, we all have problems,
                                                                            conflicts or issues that need to be
                                                                            resolved. For our children, it is no
                                                                  Edifferent.

                                                                    They may not know where to find their toy or
                                                                    what they want to wear, or they may be in a
                                                                    conflict situation with a sibling over sharing
                                                                    a toy. To them, these are real issues. By
                                                                    teaching your children how to solve problems
                                                                    from a young age, you set them up to
                                                                    develop valuable habits that will carry them
                                                                   through life.


                                                                  In the same way that you teach your child to
                                                                    speak or ride a bike, it’s essential that you
                                                                         teach them the life skill of problem-
                                                                           solving. This skill can be applied to
                                                                             issues big or small. When times
                                                                               get tough, it’s likely that your
                                                                               child will immediately turn to you
                                                                               to help them resolve an issue.
                                                                              But compare this to the workplace
                                                                              and the fact that so many people
                                                                              don’t look to others to help them
                                                                               solve or fix an issue, because they
                                                                               are able to do so themselves.


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